When the bully can’t hurt your daughter anymore, she turns her obsession toward you.

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When hurting my daughter wasn’t enough, she came for me

She called herself a friend once.

The kind that smiles in front of teachers. The kind that says “just joking” after every emotional cut. The kind who chips away at another girl’s light until there’s nothing left but self-doubt and silence.

And when my daughter walked away?

When she chose healing, truth, and distance?

This girl turned her attention to me.

Every video I post.

Every sentence I speak.

Every whisper of strength — she’s watching.

She stalks my TikTok under different names. Over and over. New profiles. New attempts. Same hunger.

This isn’t curiosity.

It’s obsession.

And it reeks of desperation.

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What kind of teenager stalks a mother who just wants her child safe?

The kind that knows she’s lost control.

Because bullies don’t just want to hurt — they want ownership.

Of reputation.

Of silence.

Of the narrative.

And when they can’t break the girl,

They go after the woman who taught her how to rise.

She scrolls through my words like scripture she’s trying to rewrite.

She rewatches my voice like it’s a threat.

But here’s the truth she can’t unsee:

I am everything she will never be.

Grounded. Brave. Awake.

And not afraid of a teenage girl in disguise.

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She will never win. She will never rise. Not like this.

No one builds a future on broken character.

Not even the loudest girl in the room.

She may get likes.

She may fool teachers.

She may feel powerful for a season.

But stalkers stay small.

Control doesn’t grow hearts — it withers them.

And this story ends the way all stories like this do:

With a mother standing taller than fear,

And a girl who wasted her youth

chasing shadows of women she could never become.

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The lesson? You don’t fight fire with fire. You let it burn out in its own emptiness.

Let her watch.

Let her scroll.

Let her obsess.

She’s not powerful.

She’s lost.

And the only thing more tragic than a teenage bully…

is the girl she becomes when no one ever teaches her to stop.

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