They Aren’t Bullying You Just Because They’re ‘Jealous’!

No matter the age of the child, the question that pops up from them regardless of if they’re in primary or secondary school is WHY they are being targeted by bullies – it’s something most of us would wonder ourselves.

Largely the excuse made for these poor examples of human beings is that they’re ‘jealous’ of the person that they are relentlessly harassing.

I have a different theory though – and it goes far deeper than simply “jealousy”.

What if these menaces to society, either single-handedly or with a small group of their like-minded lowlife associates, get together and harass others so that they don’t start fights within their own friendship group?

What if they are bullying our children not just because our children are too respectful to fight back, but also because they have a deep desire to inflict pain on anyone who they see as an ‘easy target’ who they know won’t try to intimidate them back in any way?

These evil creatures aren’t merely jealous of children who they see as more successful, happier or more visually appealing than what they perceive themselves to be- I mean I’m sure it starts there, especially when they make nasty remarks about how ugly they feel their victim is- and even more so when they interrupt a class to look directly at our child, call them a dog and order them to stop smiling… there must be something visually that they despise about their victim – the fact that their victims are usually the children who are oozing with pure joy does not help. 

They loathe our children’s happiness. They can’t stand the love that fills our children’s hearts and so they endeavour to try and put our children’s spark out or at the very least dim their light – if they can’t achieve their greatest desire of extinguishing our children completely.

This goes far beyond any kind of jealousy they may feel over materialistic things – after all from my firsthand experience with the cursed children that are harassing my daughter – they appear to have it all – and they boast about stealing it too.

In fact, if you walk into the 7-Eleven at Seven Hills, you will find their mugshots on the stores watchlist wall – these creatures have no shame in any sense of the word and this does not deter them in any way.

Whilst on the topic of stealing, they have even done so from my daughter – which honestly comes as no surprise because that’s the type of maniacal creatures they are.

This is the type of useless beings these menaces are, they are without even the smallest amount of morals or values – and where does the lack of basic core values come from if not the parents themselves?

How can anyone continue to use the excuse of jealousy for these pathetic individuals when the reality is they are far more savage than we give them credit for.

The true explanation as to why your child is being bullied, harassed and hurt by evil individuals is because those pathetic excuses for children are filled with hate. They don’t have anything else to their lives. Hate is their only drive. Not just jealousy. And if they’re not intimidating someone who has higher standards than themselves, who would not engage in violence with them, then they would turn on one of their own – and because their own are equally as vindictive as they are, they run the risk of getting themselves hurt.

That is what is actually going on here!

Hateful parents without willingness to give their child the love, guidance and support that their vicious offspring so desperately need, curse the entire world with their spawn- who are so filled with hate themselves that they are driven to destroy the most beautiful elements of life that mankind has ever seen.

These abominations hate to see anyone succeed or be happy or smile but that’s not the only thing driving them to drag our children down. They will do this just to prevent themselves from being targeted by their equals- the pathetic excuses of children who are just as vindictive as what they are.

They aren’t just bullying you because they’re jealous of you – they’re bullying you because they’re too COWARDLY to do anything else, to put the work in and actually make anything of themselves and they are far too scared to leave themselves open to being targeted by the demoniac associates they consider to be their friends.

The old saying “idle hands are the devil‘s workshop” could not be more true when considering these types of useless creatures.

How Much Poison Do You Take Before You Die?

As parents when our children are facing tremendous challenges we all seem to wonder the same thing-

How much disrespect and pain, either physical, emotional or both can our child take before it becomes too much – and perhaps, more importantly before it consumes them completely.

Oftentimes we watch on helplessly as our child faces relentless cruelty from their peers not knowing precisely what to do or who to turn to for help.

Of course there’s always a common sense answer – take it up with the school or the Board Of Education or ultimately the police – but realistically where do you think that’s going to get you?

Let’s take it closer look at what you’re REALLY dealing with here – and it’s not merely ‘immature children’:

Your child could very easily find themselves in the firing line of a completely Neurotypical evil child. What I mean by this is a child who for no chemical, hormonal or biological reasons, intentionally harasses your child – they do this out of their own sick pleasure – they seek joy from bringing harm to others.

This is the type of ‘scum of the Earth’ being that I am referring to – the kind who would never be missed if they were never there.

Of course at this point anyone having read this far would be arcing up and saying how dare she say that “nobody would miss that type of child”. Well let me reassure you that if this were the type of child that any parent were to genuinely care about, they would not allow their offspring to become the type of menace to society that these children truly are – if their own parents honestly cared about them then these creatures wouldn’t be this way.

Any parent who genuinely loves and cares for anything that they are responsible for raising wants the best for that living being – they want to see them thrive and bloom in only the best of ways possible… this is the complete opposite of what the parents of these creatures are like – they take no responsibility for their savage monsters whatsoever.

Now keeping this in mind, understanding that these parents are rejecting their responsibilities when it comes to raising decent human beings – do you honestly believe that you need to take on their role and help them guide their useless child down the right path?

Why would you need to waste your TIME, your ENERGY, your LIFE by contacting the school, contacting the Board Of Education or even contacting the police: 

  • just to get some menace help 
  • just to get some menace put on the right path 
  • just to get some menace the guidance that they need to be able to be a valuable member of society

WHY is that up to you?

IT ISN’T!!!

It isn’t your problem what happens with that creature – you never need to worry about if they’re going to be set on the right path in order to keep them away from your child. 

All you need to concern yourself with is your child’s well-being – building your child’s resilience to the point where they can fight back for themselves and they don’t ever lose sight of their self worth.

The truth is the school isn’t going to do anything. The department isn’t going to do anything. The police aren’t going to do anything. Sure they might issue some sort of warning and they might issue suspensions from school – but at the end of the day isn’t that the outcome that these creatures want? 

I guarantee you these hopeless children do not want an education. They are some of the most uneducated, illiterate living creatures ever to roam the earth. They cannot form a coherent sentence. They do not have morals. They do not have values. They do not have ethics. There is absolutely no element of goodness to the souls of these evil beings – I personally have communicated with them – and I can tell you from first hand experience there is absolutely nothing to these empty shell creatures.

They don’t have a future  – and their parents know this. 

It is because of the fact that they have nothing to live for that they will strive to take the lives of children who they see thriving, minding their own business, living their own lives, smiling, being happy- loving life.

These menaces to society will seek out the happiest, the most vulnerable, the quietest – the children who they know won’t fight back and they will endeavour to consume them. And they won’t stop until they know they have destroyed a life.

We as parents on both ends of the scale can step in to make a change and potentially save our children though.

If you don’t like what I’m saying and you know that you are responsible for one of these creatures – you can step in and make a difference in your child’s life to potentially give them a renewed sense of self and a brighter future.

Of course, if like me, you have a child who is relentlessly being bullied, you also have the power to step between the bully and your child yourself.

You don’t need to wait for ANYONE to save your child – save your child YOURSELF – call the bullying out however you see fit. Make it known to the ENTIRE WORLD what exactly is being done to your child! Suffering in silence is not the answer.

These creatures need to see their words. They need to see what they’re doing and they need to know that it will be made public – so if they’re proud to harass your child in private then they need to be able to sit comfortably knowing that you will make their cruelty known to EVERYONE – and why shouldn’t you!

When it comes to answering the question “how much poison does a person take before they die” – no parent wants to know the answer to that especially when it comes to the life of their beautiful child. No one needs to tolerate even the smallest amount of cruelty/poison – because that’s not what life is about and how would we ever know how much poison is too much…

A Different Aspect of Disney’s Frozen

Queen Elsa has autism. It wasn’t until I was actually reading the book to my children that I put all the pieces together- even though I have, just as most parents, watched the movie ‘Frozen’ more times than I can remember.

The words on the page leaped out at me. When I read that Anna and Elsa’s “parent’s worried that people would fear Elsa’s powers. To keep her gift a secret, they surrounded the castle with walls and never let anyone inside. But whenever Elsa had strong feelings, the magic still spilled out.” It all made perfect sense to me.

I can completely relate to the girl’s parents. In fact this is exactly what I have done. Sure I may not have built any walls surrounding our home, simply due to council regulations, however I have successfully shut out all of my beautiful friends, for many, many, years in order to keep my children’s gift a secret.

All the signs were there. I am just so surprised that I didn’t pick up on it sooner. Every case of autism is different, with different levels of severity as well as different characteristics being displayed in the individual.

I dare say that the power Elsa possessed to be able to make snow and ice with just her hands was symbolic of her severe melt downs.

It should be noted that I have no medical qualifications, I can’t actually diagnose autism. I am a mother, and I do possess a small degree of first hand experience with autism however and I have an idea of how wondrous it is.

Of course I know how outrageous and far fetched my hypothesis might sound, and that Queen Elsa does not even really exist. However autism does. And occasionally, when I am feeling a little out of sorts, I wish that autism didn’t really exist either so that perhaps I could hear my beautiful little boy say something. Or even just hear his precious little voice calling me “Mummy”. Something which I haven’t heard in over five years.

Disney’s movie ‘Frozen’ is brilliant on a great number of levels. It has captivated both the young and old. It’s even taught children that they can save themselves, they can be their own hero and they don’t need to rely on anyone to rescue them.

The message of strength and hope resides with me in a very different way though. It makes me believe that maybe one day my firstborn who is incredibly brave yet extremely private and my second born who is unbelievably strong yet won’t utter a single word, could possibly “let it go” and gain control over their magic.

Even if they never do, nothing changes between us. We will always be able to communicate with one another without ever needing to speak a single word.

My children’s powers are astounding, and there is nothing to fear about their magic. Perhaps I only keep them hidden so that I don’t have to share them with the world.