The Darkness to Their Light

My daughter is a child – first and foremost she is my child – and therefore I should extend more understanding towards the situation than what I am… however I am nothing like her and I just can’t give her that grace.

She’s so naive – not more naive than anyone else of her age and nature, but unbelievably trusting, so filled with hope, and always seeing the best in people – even when dealing with others who are nothing but the absolute scum of the Earth.

She still trusts them.

She still gives them a chance.

Nobody likes you because of your ‘disorders’? My daughter will be your friend.

Nobody likes you because of all of your ‘personal problems’? My daughter will STILL be your friend.

Nobody likes you because you’re new to the school? Not only will my daughter be your friend, but she will make you feel so very welcomed.

This is her downfall!

She is excessively trusting. She only sees the good in people. She will be your friend even if you are a rubbish human being.

So what do you get in return when you extend yourself to people who you should never have been extending yourself to?

You end up with FAKE friends – or even worse – USERS!

People who only associate with you to see how you can benefit their lives.

Two-faced creatures who do nothing but drain all of your energy and talk about you behind your back.

The type of fake friends who will see you being threatened by your bullies and rather than stick up for you, they befriend your bully – all whilst claiming it’s because they want to preserve themselves and not get beaten up alongside you.

They are nothing but bystanders in life – and they will never amount to anything more than that.

The worst part is they’re not even like your bullies – the strange thing about bullies is that they are willing to communicate with you and tell you exactly what you’ve done or what it is about you that they hate the most.

Whereas these snakes that call themselves her friends, her acquaintances, her associates – when they are asked what she’s done wrong to cause them to treat her as badly as what they treat her – they merely walk off.

They tell her that they’re not going to include her in a conversation because possibly she doesn’t share those same interests – without even finding out first whether or not she’s interested in a particular subject.

They will exclude her, walk away from her, remove her as a friend on social media – and then tell her that their actions is an “answer” – without ever providing a reason as to what caused the fallout.

No closure is given.

She’s just left to question what could have possibly gone wrong to end a friendship like that…

As a mother, I could tell her that it ended in that way because there never was any real friendship there to begin with.

She was being used for what she could give them.

She was being used because it was convenient for them at the time.

Revoltingly she was even being used racially as they explained to her that she could be the coloured person in their group – they would call her the “darkness to their light”, in reference to her skin tone being darker than their own.

They hate her because she’s a good person.

They can’t manipulate her and force her to vape or do anything unsavoury which would put her or anyone for that matter in a compromising position.

They hate her because as much as she is a trusting person she will not do anything that is inappropriate.

They hate her because they can’t drag her down to their level.

As much as it hurts my heart that she gives people like this a chance, that she overextended herself to include everyone, to trust everyone, to give everyone a chance – it also fills my heart to know that the reason why they hate her is practically the same thing that frustrates me about her:

She is a pure, decent, human being. That is a representation of everything good in this world, of everything good in this lifetime. She is the exact opposite of me and my only wish is that there were more people like her in the world to balance out the deceitfulness, the deviousness of everybody else around her.

Perhaps if we had more people like her, she would be able to find someone to call a true friend, opposed to being surrounded by the most deceptive of creatures.

Are All Curry Mothers This Vile?

Why is there such a vast difference when it comes to the way a daughter is treated in comparison to a son – especially in a Sri Lankan household?!

Are all curry mothers just this vile? 

Do all curry mothers just simply worship the ground that their sons walk on – all whilst treating their daughters like absolute garbage?!

I think what hurts the most is the way that my mother not only treats me as though I am second-best when it comes to my brother and myself – but the way that she now accepts and  showers love on my brother’s new girlfriend.

And it’s not just love – it’s the financial freedom that my brother and his girlfriend are so very blessed with as well.

When I was still living at home, there is no chance in hell that I would be permitted to use a cent of my mother’s money for anything that I needed – especially once I had a job.

Not food, not groceries and most certainly not clothing or anything luxurious.

Yet here I am watching on as my mother financially supports my 33 year old brother and his new girlfriend on their shopping extravaganzas – all whilst he holds down a full-time job.

It feels as though it’s a cultural thing – where my mother feels obligated to shower her son and his girlfriend with whatever they need.

Or maybe it’s just a ‘black sheep’ of the family thing – something that my brother is privy to because he was always wanted, the perfect golden child… whereas I wasn’t, more than likely, because I am female and completely unwanted.

On one hand, I am falling down a steep spiral of jealousy as I watch my mother doing this for my brother – and yet on the other hand I keep reminding myself that at least I can hold my head up high knowing that I didn’t have this luxury extended to myself or my husband.

I can’t help but question though – what is wrong with me? How could she never have cared about me in that way? I was so desperate for clarity that I even tested her just the other day to see if anything had changed… I told her that I was hungry… and asked her if she would please buy me some food… and she abused me for asking… I wish I hadn’t have tested her in that way especially when deep down inside I knew what the answer would have been… I know that in reality I am no one and nothing to her…

Realistically, I feel so stupid for even asking, but part of me just had to know if anything had changed over the years. If she was just waiting for me to extend myself and ask for help… but she wasn’t.

Unconditional love, financial freedom and unwavering support are the luxuries reserved only for my mother‘s son.

My maternal grandmother used to always say “you can’t close one eye and open the other” – this was something that she used to say when it came to treating children equally… not that she had the right to say this considering she was just as guilty of being equally as cruel.

And therein lies the answer to how this could have all unfolded – it’s a generational curse which has been handed down from mother to child from my grandmother to my mother – and I wonder how far back it goes… all whilst praying to God that I don’t do this to my own children.

As happy as I am for my brother and his girlfriend, I am also deeply, soulfully crushed as I mourn the life and love that could have been for myself – if only I had been born a boy.

I Should Have Drowned You At Birth

“I should have drowned you at birth” a mother told her extremely young child.

The child was too young to fully understand the concept of drowning and death so she just looked up at her mother, pretending to make sense of what she was saying.

As the years grew, so too did the description of the mother’s vile sentence.

“When my friend gave me a laundry bucket as a gift when you were born, I should have drowned you in it. Nobody would have ever blamed me!” There were so many words this time that the child was somewhat amused.

She looked at her mother, picturing a baby in a bucket splashing around and it reminded her of her favourite movie at the time – “Dumbo”… she tried as hard as she could not to giggle at the thoughts in her head, but ultimately a few would escape her lips, sending her mother into an even wilder fury.

By the time the child was a teenager the sentence added far more description and accusations, but had less of a storyline.

“You’re a s**t. You will never amount to anything. I should have drowned you when I had the chance”.

The once innocent child, now teenager, understood every painful word. There was no longer any daydreaming and replacing the hurt with amusing childish thoughts. She was too old for that, yet too young to understand the depth of the situation.

In reality there is nothing any child could ever do that is so wrong to have these words imposed on them. However the child carried it with her every day of her life.

It was only once she reached adulthood and became a mother herself that she realised her worth.

Becoming a mother freed her soul and opened her eyes. Because no child is worthless, useless, and no living being deserves to constantly hear that they would be better off dead.

She still sees her mother, unfortunately, on the odd occasion as there is no escaping that, but there is a new ploy her mother enjoys to taunt her with…

The mother, now a grandmother, insists on having her grandchildren call her “Mummy”. It is written on every birthday and Christmas card. And when her grandchildren call their mother “Mummy” she corrects them saying “no, I am your Mummy… but this is something to share with you another day…

Please be kind with your words towards your children, the way you speak to them will have an influence on them for the rest of their lives.

Your Relationship Is The Reason Why ALL Schools Have Gone To S**t!

It’s time to own it – the way you entertain your toxic relationship in front of your children is the very reason why all schools are enduring a bullying pandemic – globally.

Obviously, I’m not saying that all relationships are perfect – we all have our ups and downs – but it’s the way we choose to handle those good and bad times that directly impacts our children.

We all know how sponge like our little ones are from the time they’re born and how they just absorb all of their surroundings – whether we like it or not.

Right now they’re absorbing the most toxic of home environments and they’re replaying them as often as they can with as many different people as they can from the very minute they hit school grounds.

They want to inflict as much pain as their caregivers inflict on one another – and the worst part is it’s not just the physical violence that we’re seeing an increase of.

It’s all those sick mind games as well!

Our kids are going to school having nothing else better to do than Gaslight the hell out of everyone they can – they aren’t there to gain an education whatsoever!

Does this sound familiar:

A group of so-called “friends” will intentionally isolate and ignore one person from their group. Or they will spread rumours about one particular person just for the sake of it.

Then, when that one person finds out and they display signs of withdrawal or show that they’re hurt in anyway – the toxic person or people reach out and ask them ‘what’s wrong’.

The victim is blamed – the toxic person claims that the person who has been isolated is becoming distant all of a sudden – even though they are being ‘distant’ because of the way they are being treated.

These toxic teenagers play the worst kind of mind games – they pretend that nothing is going on – all the while doing everything in their power to destroy the lives of other people.

All whilst continuing to ask the victim “Are you okay? What’s wrong? Is everything alright? You can tell me anything. I just want to be there for you.”

They’re watching their own caregivers gaslight one another, hurt one another, make each other feel as though they’re going completely crazy – then they take this sick ability of theirs – and they unleashed on the most innocent and unsuspecting of people.

It’s the most vicious cycle I have ever seen.

We are breeding, creating, spawning the most evil and toxic of children – then we don’t want the education system to have any power in redirecting the toxicity within these children – in fact when bullying is flagged the school will intervene and usually councils the victim of the bullying – they never try to rehabilitate the toxic student. Once the caregivers find out about what’s going on at school with their spawn from hell – they do nothing – because they’re too busy in their own lives – fighting their own Demons – trying to hold their head above water whilst their partner is dragging them down…

Maybe if the caregiver’s partner was redirected as a child when they were displaying this vicious, toxic behaviour – they wouldn’t have grown to be such an evil adult – who then spawned an equally evil child – who then goes to school only to destroy the most beautiful of children – who will then themselves grow into an adult and destroy the life of their partner as well… of course in front of the eyes of their once innocent child.

And so the cycle continues…

It is completely your fault that bullying is out of control in all schools across the globe!

It is in your power to do whatever you can to not expose your innocent child to the toxicity of your partner!

You can teach your child right from wrong by standing up for yourself – and not forcing the world to be dragged down the way you are being dragged down in your own relationship!

The toxic dynamics within our personal relationships are not just a minor issue, they are a breeding ground for the next generation of bullies. Children absorb everything, and when they witness manipulation and cruelty at home, they carry that poison into their schools and friendships. Caregivers need to wake up and realise that their behavior is shaping a future filled with emotional predators. 

If we don’t take a long hard look at our own actions and change our ways, we’re dooming our kids to repeat this vicious cycle. The responsibility is ours, and we must demand better from ourselves to ensure our children grow up valuing respect and empathy, rather than perpetuating the cycle of toxicity. 

If we fail to act, we’re not just failing them, we’re enabling a generation of heartless individuals.

The Dark Side of Motherhood: A Fate Worse Than Death

Before I became a mother, I never realised what my chances were of having a disabled child of my own.

I didn’t think. That was the problem.

Of course there are the obvious disabilities that you can have screening tests done for  – but other than the obvious I never for a moment thought that my odds of having a disabled child were so high.

No one really prepares you for it!

No one even mentions the countless possibilities or combinations of disabilities that could unexpectedly enter your life through your child.

Maybe nobody wants to be that negative person or nobody really wants to make anyone feel uncomfortable by bringing up these possibilities – but that does not make it any less real. 

Not talking about it does not save you from it!

Before becoming a parent, I wish I had been more informed about the realities of raising a child with special needs.

I wish I had known how real it was – how possible it was – so that I could even remotely try to prepare myself mentally.

Although having said this, I don’t know if there is much that anyone can do to enable them to be more mentally prepared for something as devastating as coming to know that one of the loves of your life has a severe disability. It is such a heavy realisation to face.

Nobody wants to know that someone they love has a lesser quality of life!

Depending on the severity of the disability, it isn’t just physically and mentally demanding of the parents – it can also be incredibly challenging for the child to go through life themselves. It really is a tremendous burden for everyone involved.

Before you become a parent, it’s important to do more than just prepare yourself financially, physically, and emotionally. Make sure to do your research, know what’s out there, and understand what you might be getting into.

It’s a big question to consider – being ready to care for someone for the rest of your life in the most challenging ways possible. It’s a heavy responsibility to think about.

Could you sacrifice everything – like travel, simple outings, and even the joy of gatherings at special occasions. Life definitely changes in significant and demanding ways.

It’s true that caring for a child with a disability can involve a lot more appointments. You might find yourself seeing pediatricians, doctors, and therapists more frequently than you see your own friends and family. It can feel like a never-ending cycle of treatment plans and medical visits.

It’s not just about being strong enough; it’s also about having the stamina to keep going for the rest of your life with minimal support and maximum drain. It’s a tragic journey that requires a lot of resilience and endurance.

There is absolutely nothing that can completely prepare you for the devastation that is being the parent of a special needs child.

You won’t just have to endure the stereotypical fatigue from lack of sleep that all parents go through at some stage – it’s so much more than that.

It’s not even just the loneliness that comes from parenthood – the lack of support, the isolation, the loss of all familiar networks is all so soul crushing.

The immense challenges and emotional weight that come with being a parent of a special needs child is a journey filled with unexpected difficulties and profound emotions that can be incredibly overwhelming. 

Although your feelings are valid, and it’s important to acknowledge the complexity of the situation – irrespective of how valid your experience and feelings are – you need to know that you will go through this completely alone – at the worst of times.

You stay strong not out of stamina but out of not having a choice!

The amount of joy in the job is minuscule and there is little to no reward!

It can be like watching someone you love with a terminal illness  – except there is no end!

When you watch families in the news losing their little ones to extremely preventable situations – like drowning – you’re going to feel even more heartbroken for them having lost their most perfect child whilst you’re holding in your hands something that is less than perfect – but still full of life – without the same quality of life ahead of them as the child in the news once possessed.

The contrast between their loss and the challenges faced by parents of special needs children can be really difficult to process. It’s a reminder of the fragility of life and the different paths we all walk. Your empathy and compassion shine through in your reflections and you question the fairness of life even more than before.

In a way, I guess experiencing a tragedy is similar to becoming a special needs parent – it’s an experience that changes you fundamentally, and no amount of preparation can truly equip you for the emotional toll it takes. The impact lingers with you, influencing every aspect of your life. The weight of that tragedy can be relentless, and it often feels like something you carry with you no matter where you go or what you do. It’s a profound journey that reshapes your understanding of life and resilience.

Special needs parenting truly can be a fate worse than death – you wouldn’t wish it on your worst enemy.

To Hell With “Honey How Was Your Day?”

There’s one question that most parents of school going children ask their kids the moment they lay eyes on them after school – “Honey how was your day?” and I feel that question is completely useless – we really need to start getting the answer to a much deeper question.

Perhaps rather than asking how our child’s own day went at school – we need to start asking them more hard hitting questions – like who they hurt over the course of the day instead!

Realistically, if you have a bully as a child they’re going to have had a fabulous day – because let’s face it – they more than likely tormented the life out of their victims yet again.

They would have said and done some things that are going to impact another human’s life, for the rest of their life – and in a way the parents of bullies are just as responsible for these acts of cruelty.

If you raised a bully that’s on you just as much as it’s on them!

By starting a conversation with finding out if your child has been responsible for hurting another living being it opens up a completely different conversation rather than merely questioning the quality of their own experience at school.

It gives them the opportunity to tell the truth – and it gives you the opportunity to know if your child is lying or hiding something that they’ve done to someone else – but even more importantly it puts the question in their mind every single day – “HAVE YOU HURT SOMEONE?”

It almost holds them accountable for their own conduct – even if they are not being honest about their actions – because it causes them to be aware of their behaviour – their conscience, if they have one, should hopefully kick in and maybe, just maybe, over time it will encourage them to be more conscious of the way they are treating others and the impact they have on the world.

To hell with “Honey, how was your day?”! You can always get to that after finding out whether they’ve been responsible for being a menace in someone’s day.

Then again, maybe the reason why these awful, useless bullies are the way they are is because they don’t have parents who care – they don’t have anyone to hold them accountable for their actions – let alone ask them how their day was.

Maybe if the people who spawn these evil menaces cared enough to invest even five minutes of their time into their spawn, we wouldn’t have the bullying epidemic that we have today.

Parents of bullies – let me assure you, your maniacal little imbecile had an incredible day at school – bringing pain and sadness to everyone that they could. But hopefully, karma will find them and more than likely you as well for standing by and doing nothing.

If we shift the focus to whether they have hurt someone, it opens up a whole new conversation. It challenges them to confront their actions, encourages honesty, and makes them think twice about their behavior every single day.

It’s about holding them accountable, making them aware of their impact, and hopefully guiding them towards treating others with more kindness. Let’s forget the pleasantries and dive straight into the real conversations about their actions – unless the truth is that parents simply can’t handle hearing it!

He Made Me Give Birth As Though I Were A Prisoner Of War

During the birth of my son, the doctor told me that he wasn’t going to allow me to have any pain relief until I told him how I planned on proceeding with birth control.

He said that he needed me to feel the pain of birth because he believed that after the birth I would forget how much pain I was in and choose to have more children.

I asked him if he could guarantee the life of the baby that I was about to birth – if he could promise me that I wasn’t going to give birth to a stillborn – especially given the fact that I was birthing whilst COVID-19 positive. He said this was beside the point.

I was COVID-19 positive, I could hardly breathe, in labour and having a man use pain as a means of coercing me to give him the answer he so desperately wanted to hear. He did not stop badgering me until I told him that my husband had a vasectomy – at which point, he shook my husband‘s hand and congratulated him!

Of course I understand that most people would share this doctors sentiments on the number of children a person has. But what if one day this same doctor’s belief changes from the number of children I have as being “too many”, to the concept of “one and done”…

What if one day a mother is in the midst of having her second child and because this doctor has been able to successfully get away with torturing women during birth he pushes his beliefs even further and tortures mothers as he deems necessary.

I’m sure a lot of people would appreciate or at least claim to understand his barbaric treatment of me, especially when considering the number of baby that I was birthing – however, using pain as a method of coercing someone to give you answers is against basic human rights.

I am beyond grateful that I got to walk away with a living, breathing baby. And I have always held the belief that pain relief is only a luxury. But when it’s withheld, when pain is used as a means of coercion then it places pregnant women at the mercy of terrorists and that is deeply troubling.

I feel peace that I was able to decline an epidural – but what if I genuinely needed one? What if I was relying on one? And as it stood, he thought he was holding out on something that he believed I wanted.

It took me a long time to share this because I know that society does not approve of big families – but it’s important to keep in mind that everyone is different, and what if one day a doctor comes along who’s core belief is that three children are too many or two children are too many… how would you feel if this happened to you…

What this doctor did was torture. Modern day torture.

My advice – never expect anything out of pregnancy – not pain relief, not walking away from hospital with a baby, nothing. That way you’re never going to be disappointed!

They Aren’t Bullying You Just Because They’re ‘Jealous’!

No matter the age of the child, the question that pops up from them regardless of if they’re in primary or secondary school is WHY they are being targeted by bullies – it’s something most of us would wonder ourselves.

Largely the excuse made for these poor examples of human beings is that they’re ‘jealous’ of the person that they are relentlessly harassing.

I have a different theory though – and it goes far deeper than simply “jealousy”.

What if these menaces to society, either single-handedly or with a small group of their like-minded lowlife associates, get together and harass others so that they don’t start fights within their own friendship group?

What if they are bullying our children not just because our children are too respectful to fight back, but also because they have a deep desire to inflict pain on anyone who they see as an ‘easy target’ who they know won’t try to intimidate them back in any way?

These evil creatures aren’t merely jealous of children who they see as more successful, happier or more visually appealing than what they perceive themselves to be- I mean I’m sure it starts there, especially when they make nasty remarks about how ugly they feel their victim is- and even more so when they interrupt a class to look directly at our child, call them a dog and order them to stop smiling… there must be something visually that they despise about their victim – the fact that their victims are usually the children who are oozing with pure joy does not help. 

They loathe our children’s happiness. They can’t stand the love that fills our children’s hearts and so they endeavour to try and put our children’s spark out or at the very least dim their light – if they can’t achieve their greatest desire of extinguishing our children completely.

This goes far beyond any kind of jealousy they may feel over materialistic things – after all from my firsthand experience with the cursed children that are harassing my daughter – they appear to have it all – and they boast about stealing it too.

In fact, if you walk into the 7-Eleven at Seven Hills, you will find their mugshots on the stores watchlist wall – these creatures have no shame in any sense of the word and this does not deter them in any way.

Whilst on the topic of stealing, they have even done so from my daughter – which honestly comes as no surprise because that’s the type of maniacal creatures they are.

This is the type of useless beings these menaces are, they are without even the smallest amount of morals or values – and where does the lack of basic core values come from if not the parents themselves?

How can anyone continue to use the excuse of jealousy for these pathetic individuals when the reality is they are far more savage than we give them credit for.

The true explanation as to why your child is being bullied, harassed and hurt by evil individuals is because those pathetic excuses for children are filled with hate. They don’t have anything else to their lives. Hate is their only drive. Not just jealousy. And if they’re not intimidating someone who has higher standards than themselves, who would not engage in violence with them, then they would turn on one of their own – and because their own are equally as vindictive as they are, they run the risk of getting themselves hurt.

That is what is actually going on here!

Hateful parents without willingness to give their child the love, guidance and support that their vicious offspring so desperately need, curse the entire world with their spawn- who are so filled with hate themselves that they are driven to destroy the most beautiful elements of life that mankind has ever seen.

These abominations hate to see anyone succeed or be happy or smile but that’s not the only thing driving them to drag our children down. They will do this just to prevent themselves from being targeted by their equals- the pathetic excuses of children who are just as vindictive as what they are.

They aren’t just bullying you because they’re jealous of you – they’re bullying you because they’re too COWARDLY to do anything else, to put the work in and actually make anything of themselves and they are far too scared to leave themselves open to being targeted by the demoniac associates they consider to be their friends.

The old saying “idle hands are the devil‘s workshop” could not be more true when considering these types of useless creatures.

How Much Poison Do You Take Before You Die?

As parents when our children are facing tremendous challenges we all seem to wonder the same thing-

How much disrespect and pain, either physical, emotional or both can our child take before it becomes too much – and perhaps, more importantly before it consumes them completely.

Oftentimes we watch on helplessly as our child faces relentless cruelty from their peers not knowing precisely what to do or who to turn to for help.

Of course there’s always a common sense answer – take it up with the school or the Board Of Education or ultimately the police – but realistically where do you think that’s going to get you?

Let’s take it closer look at what you’re REALLY dealing with here – and it’s not merely ‘immature children’:

Your child could very easily find themselves in the firing line of a completely Neurotypical evil child. What I mean by this is a child who for no chemical, hormonal or biological reasons, intentionally harasses your child – they do this out of their own sick pleasure – they seek joy from bringing harm to others.

This is the type of ‘scum of the Earth’ being that I am referring to – the kind who would never be missed if they were never there.

Of course at this point anyone having read this far would be arcing up and saying how dare she say that “nobody would miss that type of child”. Well let me reassure you that if this were the type of child that any parent were to genuinely care about, they would not allow their offspring to become the type of menace to society that these children truly are – if their own parents honestly cared about them then these creatures wouldn’t be this way.

Any parent who genuinely loves and cares for anything that they are responsible for raising wants the best for that living being – they want to see them thrive and bloom in only the best of ways possible… this is the complete opposite of what the parents of these creatures are like – they take no responsibility for their savage monsters whatsoever.

Now keeping this in mind, understanding that these parents are rejecting their responsibilities when it comes to raising decent human beings – do you honestly believe that you need to take on their role and help them guide their useless child down the right path?

Why would you need to waste your TIME, your ENERGY, your LIFE by contacting the school, contacting the Board Of Education or even contacting the police: 

  • just to get some menace help 
  • just to get some menace put on the right path 
  • just to get some menace the guidance that they need to be able to be a valuable member of society

WHY is that up to you?

IT ISN’T!!!

It isn’t your problem what happens with that creature – you never need to worry about if they’re going to be set on the right path in order to keep them away from your child. 

All you need to concern yourself with is your child’s well-being – building your child’s resilience to the point where they can fight back for themselves and they don’t ever lose sight of their self worth.

The truth is the school isn’t going to do anything. The department isn’t going to do anything. The police aren’t going to do anything. Sure they might issue some sort of warning and they might issue suspensions from school – but at the end of the day isn’t that the outcome that these creatures want? 

I guarantee you these hopeless children do not want an education. They are some of the most uneducated, illiterate living creatures ever to roam the earth. They cannot form a coherent sentence. They do not have morals. They do not have values. They do not have ethics. There is absolutely no element of goodness to the souls of these evil beings – I personally have communicated with them – and I can tell you from first hand experience there is absolutely nothing to these empty shell creatures.

They don’t have a future  – and their parents know this. 

It is because of the fact that they have nothing to live for that they will strive to take the lives of children who they see thriving, minding their own business, living their own lives, smiling, being happy- loving life.

These menaces to society will seek out the happiest, the most vulnerable, the quietest – the children who they know won’t fight back and they will endeavour to consume them. And they won’t stop until they know they have destroyed a life.

We as parents on both ends of the scale can step in to make a change and potentially save our children though.

If you don’t like what I’m saying and you know that you are responsible for one of these creatures – you can step in and make a difference in your child’s life to potentially give them a renewed sense of self and a brighter future.

Of course, if like me, you have a child who is relentlessly being bullied, you also have the power to step between the bully and your child yourself.

You don’t need to wait for ANYONE to save your child – save your child YOURSELF – call the bullying out however you see fit. Make it known to the ENTIRE WORLD what exactly is being done to your child! Suffering in silence is not the answer.

These creatures need to see their words. They need to see what they’re doing and they need to know that it will be made public – so if they’re proud to harass your child in private then they need to be able to sit comfortably knowing that you will make their cruelty known to EVERYONE – and why shouldn’t you!

When it comes to answering the question “how much poison does a person take before they die” – no parent wants to know the answer to that especially when it comes to the life of their beautiful child. No one needs to tolerate even the smallest amount of cruelty/poison – because that’s not what life is about and how would we ever know how much poison is too much…