Your Relationship Is The Reason Why ALL Schools Have Gone To S**t!

~ Rochelle ~ 1 Comment

It’s time to own it – the way you entertain your toxic relationship in front of your children is the very reason why all schools are enduring a bullying pandemic – globally.

Obviously, I’m not saying that all relationships are perfect – we all have our ups and downs – but it’s the way we choose to handle those good and bad times that directly impacts our children.

We all know how sponge like our little ones are from the time they’re born and how they just absorb all of their surroundings – whether we like it or not.

Right now they’re absorbing the most toxic of home environments and they’re replaying them as often as they can with as many different people as they can from the very minute they hit school grounds.

They want to inflict as much pain as their caregivers inflict on one another – and the worst part is it’s not just the physical violence that we’re seeing an increase of.

It’s all those sick mind games as well!

Our kids are going to school having nothing else better to do than Gaslight the hell out of everyone they can – they aren’t there to gain an education whatsoever!

Does this sound familiar:

A group of so-called “friends” will intentionally isolate and ignore one person from their group. Or they will spread rumours about one particular person just for the sake of it.

Then, when that one person finds out and they display signs of withdrawal or show that they’re hurt in anyway – the toxic person or people reach out and ask them ‘what’s wrong’.

The victim is blamed – the toxic person claims that the person who has been isolated is becoming distant all of a sudden – even though they are being ‘distant’ because of the way they are being treated.

These toxic teenagers play the worst kind of mind games – they pretend that nothing is going on – all the while doing everything in their power to destroy the lives of other people.

All whilst continuing to ask the victim “Are you okay? What’s wrong? Is everything alright? You can tell me anything. I just want to be there for you.”

They’re watching their own caregivers gaslight one another, hurt one another, make each other feel as though they’re going completely crazy – then they take this sick ability of theirs – and they unleashed on the most innocent and unsuspecting of people.

It’s the most vicious cycle I have ever seen.

We are breeding, creating, spawning the most evil and toxic of children – then we don’t want the education system to have any power in redirecting the toxicity within these children – in fact when bullying is flagged the school will intervene and usually councils the victim of the bullying – they never try to rehabilitate the toxic student. Once the caregivers find out about what’s going on at school with their spawn from hell – they do nothing – because they’re too busy in their own lives – fighting their own Demons – trying to hold their head above water whilst their partner is dragging them down…

Maybe if the caregiver’s partner was redirected as a child when they were displaying this vicious, toxic behaviour – they wouldn’t have grown to be such an evil adult – who then spawned an equally evil child – who then goes to school only to destroy the most beautiful of children – who will then themselves grow into an adult and destroy the life of their partner as well… of course in front of the eyes of their once innocent child.

And so the cycle continues…

It is completely your fault that bullying is out of control in all schools across the globe!

It is in your power to do whatever you can to not expose your innocent child to the toxicity of your partner!

You can teach your child right from wrong by standing up for yourself – and not forcing the world to be dragged down the way you are being dragged down in your own relationship!

The toxic dynamics within our personal relationships are not just a minor issue, they are a breeding ground for the next generation of bullies. Children absorb everything, and when they witness manipulation and cruelty at home, they carry that poison into their schools and friendships. Caregivers need to wake up and realise that their behavior is shaping a future filled with emotional predators. 

If we don’t take a long hard look at our own actions and change our ways, we’re dooming our kids to repeat this vicious cycle. The responsibility is ours, and we must demand better from ourselves to ensure our children grow up valuing respect and empathy, rather than perpetuating the cycle of toxicity. 

If we fail to act, we’re not just failing them, we’re enabling a generation of heartless individuals.

The Dark Side of Motherhood: A Fate Worse Than Death

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Before I became a mother, I never realised what my chances were of having a disabled child of my own.

I didn’t think. That was the problem.

Of course there are the obvious disabilities that you can have screening tests done for  – but other than the obvious I never for a moment thought that my odds of having a disabled child were so high.

No one really prepares you for it!

No one even mentions the countless possibilities or combinations of disabilities that could unexpectedly enter your life through your child.

Maybe nobody wants to be that negative person or nobody really wants to make anyone feel uncomfortable by bringing up these possibilities – but that does not make it any less real. 

Not talking about it does not save you from it!

Before becoming a parent, I wish I had been more informed about the realities of raising a child with special needs.

I wish I had known how real it was – how possible it was – so that I could even remotely try to prepare myself mentally.

Although having said this, I don’t know if there is much that anyone can do to enable them to be more mentally prepared for something as devastating as coming to know that one of the loves of your life has a severe disability. It is such a heavy realisation to face.

Nobody wants to know that someone they love has a lesser quality of life!

Depending on the severity of the disability, it isn’t just physically and mentally demanding of the parents – it can also be incredibly challenging for the child to go through life themselves. It really is a tremendous burden for everyone involved.

Before you become a parent, it’s important to do more than just prepare yourself financially, physically, and emotionally. Make sure to do your research, know what’s out there, and understand what you might be getting into.

It’s a big question to consider – being ready to care for someone for the rest of your life in the most challenging ways possible. It’s a heavy responsibility to think about.

Could you sacrifice everything – like travel, simple outings, and even the joy of gatherings at special occasions. Life definitely changes in significant and demanding ways.

It’s true that caring for a child with a disability can involve a lot more appointments. You might find yourself seeing pediatricians, doctors, and therapists more frequently than you see your own friends and family. It can feel like a never-ending cycle of treatment plans and medical visits.

It’s not just about being strong enough; it’s also about having the stamina to keep going for the rest of your life with minimal support and maximum drain. It’s a tragic journey that requires a lot of resilience and endurance.

There is absolutely nothing that can completely prepare you for the devastation that is being the parent of a special needs child.

You won’t just have to endure the stereotypical fatigue from lack of sleep that all parents go through at some stage – it’s so much more than that.

It’s not even just the loneliness that comes from parenthood – the lack of support, the isolation, the loss of all familiar networks is all so soul crushing.

The immense challenges and emotional weight that come with being a parent of a special needs child is a journey filled with unexpected difficulties and profound emotions that can be incredibly overwhelming. 

Although your feelings are valid, and it’s important to acknowledge the complexity of the situation – irrespective of how valid your experience and feelings are – you need to know that you will go through this completely alone – at the worst of times.

You stay strong not out of stamina but out of not having a choice!

The amount of joy in the job is minuscule and there is little to no reward!

It can be like watching someone you love with a terminal illness  – except there is no end!

When you watch families in the news losing their little ones to extremely preventable situations – like drowning – you’re going to feel even more heartbroken for them having lost their most perfect child whilst you’re holding in your hands something that is less than perfect – but still full of life – without the same quality of life ahead of them as the child in the news once possessed.

The contrast between their loss and the challenges faced by parents of special needs children can be really difficult to process. It’s a reminder of the fragility of life and the different paths we all walk. Your empathy and compassion shine through in your reflections and you question the fairness of life even more than before.

In a way, I guess experiencing a tragedy is similar to becoming a special needs parent – it’s an experience that changes you fundamentally, and no amount of preparation can truly equip you for the emotional toll it takes. The impact lingers with you, influencing every aspect of your life. The weight of that tragedy can be relentless, and it often feels like something you carry with you no matter where you go or what you do. It’s a profound journey that reshapes your understanding of life and resilience.

Special needs parenting truly can be a fate worse than death – you wouldn’t wish it on your worst enemy.

To Hell With “Honey How Was Your Day?”

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There’s one question that most parents of school going children ask their kids the moment they lay eyes on them after school – “Honey how was your day?” and I feel that question is completely useless – we really need to start getting the answer to a much deeper question.

Perhaps rather than asking how our child’s own day went at school – we need to start asking them more hard hitting questions – like who they hurt over the course of the day instead!

Realistically, if you have a bully as a child they’re going to have had a fabulous day – because let’s face it – they more than likely tormented the life out of their victims yet again.

They would have said and done some things that are going to impact another human’s life, for the rest of their life – and in a way the parents of bullies are just as responsible for these acts of cruelty.

If you raised a bully that’s on you just as much as it’s on them!

By starting a conversation with finding out if your child has been responsible for hurting another living being it opens up a completely different conversation rather than merely questioning the quality of their own experience at school.

It gives them the opportunity to tell the truth – and it gives you the opportunity to know if your child is lying or hiding something that they’ve done to someone else – but even more importantly it puts the question in their mind every single day – “HAVE YOU HURT SOMEONE?”

It almost holds them accountable for their own conduct – even if they are not being honest about their actions – because it causes them to be aware of their behaviour – their conscience, if they have one, should hopefully kick in and maybe, just maybe, over time it will encourage them to be more conscious of the way they are treating others and the impact they have on the world.

To hell with “Honey, how was your day?”! You can always get to that after finding out whether they’ve been responsible for being a menace in someone’s day.

Then again, maybe the reason why these awful, useless bullies are the way they are is because they don’t have parents who care – they don’t have anyone to hold them accountable for their actions – let alone ask them how their day was.

Maybe if the people who spawn these evil menaces cared enough to invest even five minutes of their time into their spawn, we wouldn’t have the bullying epidemic that we have today.

Parents of bullies – let me assure you, your maniacal little imbecile had an incredible day at school – bringing pain and sadness to everyone that they could. But hopefully, karma will find them and more than likely you as well for standing by and doing nothing.

If we shift the focus to whether they have hurt someone, it opens up a whole new conversation. It challenges them to confront their actions, encourages honesty, and makes them think twice about their behavior every single day.

It’s about holding them accountable, making them aware of their impact, and hopefully guiding them towards treating others with more kindness. Let’s forget the pleasantries and dive straight into the real conversations about their actions – unless the truth is that parents simply can’t handle hearing it!

The Cowardice of Modern Dating: Love in the Age of Apps

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People entering the dating scene today are absolute cowards!

It’s no wonder they have to hide behind apps on their devices to try and find the love of their life – if that’s even what they’re genuinely looking for.

They say it’s because they’re ‘time poor’ that they need to invest themselves into technology to be able to find their soulmate – but how much time are they spending on these apps themselves?! And are they really saving themselves ’time’, or is it more that they’re saving face by using a more cowardly method of introduction.

How easy is it for them to portray themselves as the perfect catch when they have the opportunity to edit and alter what they say – especially with the introduction of AI into chat features…

They can be whoever they want to be – manipulate their words into being the perfect representation of how they want to portray themselves – it’s all nothing but a farce from the get go.

It’s no wonder that so many of these online relationships go downhill the minute people meet in real life – when they can no longer rely on the assistance of artificial intelligence to give them the perfect answer to questions or the gift of time to be able to come up with the perfectly worded response themselves and merely ‘send’ it through to their partner once they’ve edited their response enough.

Apps can help people take their time in the search for love, but they don’t offer any guidance on how to treat others with decency.

These apps should, but don’t provide counselling for when things go wrong or when people just don’t turn out to be the person they were pretending to be.

When someone who was spending hours on the phone with you is suddenly stopping all contact with you – without any explanation nor reasoning or closure for what went wrong when everything seemed to have been going so right.

These dating apps seem to cause just as much heartbreak as they do help people find connections – maybe even more!

Or perhaps it’s not the app itself, but the kind of people who use them. Maybe there’s a certain type of coward who opts for the app route instead of seeking love in real life because they want to avoid getting hurt. They may be unwilling to face the risk of breaking their own hearts in reality, so they end up hurting others online instead – since the stakes feel lower for them.

Whatever it may be, we need a more human way of finding love moving forward – especially with groups on social media like ‘Sis, Is This Your Man?’, ‘Sis, Is This Your Home-wrecker?’ and other online groups such as ‘Is He Safe To Date?’ that you can join on social media to enable you to get some sort of background check on a person before you date them – in reality you can run background checks on whomever you want – but what about treating that person as someone with feelings and emotions just like you? Who deserves respect and empathy just as you do!

We need to be providing the actual human with a genuine reason when we break up with them – something to give them peace and closure.

It’s not about abruptly cutting off all contact with them once you’re no longer interested. There are more considerate ways to communicate that you want to end the relationship. It’s important to handle these situations with care and respect for the other person’s feelings.

We need to state why we’re not invested – what has changed – people can’t be so cold and callous!

If someone isn’t who you expected them to be after exchanging photos, messages and talking on the phone for hours on end then the least you can do is express to them what went wrong and why you’re breaking up with them or why you’re no longer interested in them.

It doesn’t just provide them with the closure that they so desperately need, but it gives them the opportunity for growth and to be a better person for themselves as well as for somebody else. It provides them with guidance into how to better live their life to their fullest potential – we are all human at the end of the day, we all make mistakes and personal growth is such an integral part of life.

I understand that there might be situations where people may not feel safe in letting the other person know why they have broken things off with them – in that case, let the police know so that the authorities can keep everyone else safe as well as informing the person about their inappropriate conduct.

No matter what the situation is, we need to communicate and not leave people hanging!

How hard is it to provide feedback and closure – especially if you’ve already wasted so much of someone’s time?! Something as simple as “Meeting up was not what I expected, I’ve noticed a lot of red flags so I’d prefer not to pursue this any further” or “Sorry, you remind me too much of my ex, so I’m going to have to call it quits with you.” or “Listen, I just don’t feel a spark. There’s no vibe between us…” just something, anything – rather than absolute silence.

Blocking someone does not equal ending a relationship – it’s just sad and cowardly and the only ‘end’ that they’re experiencing is from knowing that the person who’s done it is an absolutely awful human being.

Or maybe it all boils down to the type of person who engages in this type of app to find love – maybe if you’re not responsible enough to be able to make time and seek someone out in real life then you’re simply not the type of person to put yourself out there to be able to end a relationship decently either.

Rather than ending things in a civil manner they continue to rely on technology and simply block people as a means of letting them know that they’re no longer interested – because they believe they don’t have the time even to be decent.

That’s when their true colours shine the brightest, they make their real identity known and as for their victims – hopefully one day they will realise what a massive bullet they dodged.

If you can’t show bravery when seeking love then at the very least don’t be a coward when ending it!

He Made Me Give Birth As Though I Were A Prisoner Of War

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During the birth of my son, the doctor told me that he wasn’t going to allow me to have any pain relief until I told him how I planned on proceeding with birth control.

He said that he needed me to feel the pain of birth because he believed that after the birth I would forget how much pain I was in and choose to have more children.

I asked him if he could guarantee the life of the baby that I was about to birth – if he could promise me that I wasn’t going to give birth to a stillborn – especially given the fact that I was birthing whilst COVID-19 positive. He said this was beside the point.

I was COVID-19 positive, I could hardly breathe, in labour and having a man use pain as a means of coercing me to give him the answer he so desperately wanted to hear. He did not stop badgering me until I told him that my husband had a vasectomy – at which point, he shook my husband‘s hand and congratulated him!

Of course I understand that most people would share this doctors sentiments on the number of children a person has. But what if one day this same doctor’s belief changes from the number of children I have as being “too many”, to the concept of “one and done”…

What if one day a mother is in the midst of having her second child and because this doctor has been able to successfully get away with torturing women during birth he pushes his beliefs even further and tortures mothers as he deems necessary.

I’m sure a lot of people would appreciate or at least claim to understand his barbaric treatment of me, especially when considering the number of baby that I was birthing – however, using pain as a method of coercing someone to give you answers is against basic human rights.

I am beyond grateful that I got to walk away with a living, breathing baby. And I have always held the belief that pain relief is only a luxury. But when it’s withheld, when pain is used as a means of coercion then it places pregnant women at the mercy of terrorists and that is deeply troubling.

I feel peace that I was able to decline an epidural – but what if I genuinely needed one? What if I was relying on one? And as it stood, he thought he was holding out on something that he believed I wanted.

It took me a long time to share this because I know that society does not approve of big families – but it’s important to keep in mind that everyone is different, and what if one day a doctor comes along who’s core belief is that three children are too many or two children are too many… how would you feel if this happened to you…

What this doctor did was torture. Modern day torture.

My advice – never expect anything out of pregnancy – not pain relief, not walking away from hospital with a baby, nothing. That way you’re never going to be disappointed!

Congratulations? I Think Not!

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Do people with more than one child honestly deserve to be congratulated on their subsequent pregnancy news?

I mean obviously they are seeking attention and fishing to be congratulated the moment they share their pregnancy news – but what makes them deserving of being wished especially after they have already produced an offspring?

Let’s face it – the first time is often a surprise. A pregnancy announcement can be a sign that both partners in a relationship have healthy reproductive systems – great, congratulations on that. You both knew what you wanted, and how to achieve it and you did – so good job on you both.

At the end of the day, we all know what causes pregnancy. It isn’t a surprise. Even if it is an unexpected or unplanned pregnancy – it isn’t hard to extend the obligatory “congratulations” when met with a pregnancy announcement… I mean as long as it’s the first of its kind.

Yay, you wanted to be child-free, but got caught off guard unexpectedly because things didn’t go to plan and you ended up catching feels, which lead to continuing on with the pregnancy… congratulations (especially because I am genuinely surprised).

Same sex couple? Single mother that found the perfect donor? Successful surrogacy? IVF procedure that worked? Congratulations!

Here’s where it gets a little too much though – how many times do you expect to be congratulated?

Unless there are truly extenuating circumstances – for example, if you were producing children by multiple partners – where it’s an ‘unknown’ whether you and your new person would be successful in reproducing – do you honestly deserve to have any subsequent pregnancy offered any sort of ‘congratulations’?

I don’t believe you do!

You’re following the same formula you did the first time – and you’re getting the same results. Big deal!

Let’s face it – if it were baby number four onwards people wouldn’t congratulate the expectant parents – so why do we waste our breath on anything after the first?!

It’s ridiculous!

Can you imagine that? Can you picture how awful it sounds not to congratulate someone simply because they already have a child?

This is EXACTLY what people do once they feel a family has ‘too many kids’. The element of surprise is completely lost and because a subsequent pregnancy is almost EXPECTED – no one feels the joy of congratulating those expectant parents – because somehow that pregnancy does not deserve it.

It’s actually really sad, but true.

Once you’ve reached the limit of children society has placed on mankind, the word “congratulations” is suddenly replaced by the most snidest remarks and cruel jokes. 

Basic human decency is replaced with ridicule.  And large families tolerate the bad behaviour. Unfortunately some may choose not to disclose their marvellous pregnancy news due to horrendous past experiences with others – but at the end of the day do they really need to hear your ‘congratulations’ – your ‘approval’?

Does anyone need to hear fake words of support? And if you aren’t going to be caring for that baby in any way – does your opinion even matter?!

The truth is, it doesn’t. You don’t actually matter in the life of that family – of that baby. You are just as meaningless as your empty words, or lack there of. So “congratulations” or not – you don’t actually matter. And although every new life truly does deserve to be celebrated and congratulated, at the end of the day that beautiful soul will thrive, with or without your well wishes.

You Don’t Get To Choose The Bear – Because You Raised The Man!

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Mothers, with all their heart, are choosing the eerie safety of the forest with a bear over a man. Yet, these same mothers are raising men who are nothing but disappointments!

Women are being questioned if they prefer being stranded in the forest with a man or a bear, and surprisingly, most are opting for the bear. Many women indicate they would pick the bear because, with no information about the man, the bear seems like the safer choice.

However, you shouldn’t get to choose the safer option if you have created an absolute beast and unleashed him on the world.

I want you to picture this:

First he asked her to climb a pole.

Then he looked up her dress.

He then began removing her underwear whilst asking her to dance like a “pole dancer”.

Her brother and his incredible friends showed up and saved her before it got any worse thank God!!

The sexual predator in this case was only eleven, and the little girl that he chose to assault was only seven.

His mother should NEVER get to choose the bear after what her son did.

Perhaps the worst part of the entire ordeal was the school’s response – they chose to isolate the little girl from her siblings on the playground after the indecent incident whilst all the while pretending to her mother that they were not going to separate the siblings.

They took her safety, her protection away from her.

All whilst protecting the deranged sexual predator.

They allowed him to move freely around the playground and during this time he chose to taunt her brother – telling her brother that what he did was not wrong in any way – because after all he got away with it without any sort of repercussions or accountability being held against him.

These are my children. And of all the sick and twisted things other children have put them through, this would have to be the absolute worst by far.

In fact, it was my husband that had taken the call from the school letting him know what had happened to our little girl at lunchtime – for the rest of the day he could not focus on his job. It absolutely destroyed him.

Surprisingly, when I spoke to the school the next day, as of about 1:30pm, the sexual predator’s parents still had not been informed of what he had done – it’s probably no surprise to the school nor to his parents which is why they hadn’t bothered to notify them.

To make matters worse, the sick twisted predator had just been moved into my son’s classroom – God only knows if he had been harassing students in the class that he was in and if this is why he had to be moved into a different class.

Either way, the lesson from this horrific ordeal has been that no matter the age, perpetrators of sexual violence have never and will never be held accountable for their vile behaviour.

Victims and those that support the victims will always be silenced and isolated.

If you’re ever curious about why people stay silent about abuse for so long, perhaps this could be one of the reasons why individuals wait decades before sharing their horrific stories with the world.

I feel beyond blessed to have a son as brave as my little boy and that he has the most incredible, equally brave and supportive friends who came to rescue my little girl.

The aftermath has been truly chilling. The school’s response was a betrayal. They failed to protect my innocent girl, isolating her from her siblings while shielding the predator. The predator roamed freely, unscathed, taunting my son week after week with no consequences. This injustice, this horror inflicted on my children, is beyond words.

You have no right to choose the bear if you have raised something as barbaric as this vile creature.

FOUR Children Strangled In THREE Weeks

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Four children strangled in three school weeks – by the same vicious child – sounds like news headlines doesn’t it? But this is something that you’re not going to hear in the media because these children are in primary school and therefore the psychotic behaviour of the perpetrators is excused.

I wasn’t going to write about this, but today, after being silenced by another school mother, I feel the need to share it publicly.

On the 31st of July, my son was playing handball with his friends when a coward approached him from behind and strangled him.

My son was just one out of the four children who have, week after week, undergone physical assault by the same menace.

Two of whom had to be rushed to hospital!

After the incident, I wanted more information about what could possibly be triggering this maniacal little creature to be bringing such harm to other children.

So I posted in the schools parents group asking if anyone had further information about whether there might be some sort of mental health or disability at play which could be contributing to the violent behaviour of this menace.

I thought that perhaps a ball could be responsible for triggering him to lash out – in which case parents and children need to know so that we are able to understand the situation and keep everyone safe.

A majority of the parent’s reactions was that they knew that this was going on, that the behaviour didn’t have any other contributing factors – and after speaking to the school principal he confirmed that there was nothing else at play.

In fact, the principal let me know that this boy was just being dared by another child to strangle children on the playground at random. Both were seeking some kind of sick enjoyment out of it.

After learning that there was nothing other than a nasty and incredibly sick personality behind these barbaric attacks, and from seeing the concern from parents within the group I chose to disclose the names of the boys involved in the incidents.

Wouldn’t you want to know?  If there was someone that you needed to prepare your child to be around so that they didn’t get strangled – wouldn’t you want to know who they were so that you could keep your child safe? Or for better phrasing – so that your child can keep themselves safe considering that the school has allowed this behaviour to extend across four children’s lives without putting a stop to it.

A week later, I received a private message from the owner of the school parents group informing me that she would need to switch off the comments on my post as well as delete any comments that she deemed “inappropriate” – it should be noted that absolutely no one swore or was abusive within the thread of my post.

Apparently, a parent had contacted the admin of the group and complained regarding the “sensitive nature” of the topic I had brought up.

And therefore I had to be silenced.

Instead of society recognising a problem and coming together as a community to attempt to figure out a way of addressing the issue at hand – we choose to silence the person bringing up the issue.

Instead of questioning why these aggressive little menaces are acting out and harming other innocent children, rather than holding their parents accountable for the actions of their vicious creatures, we are protecting the ones causing the most amount of harm – and silencing their victims.

To add insult to injury, I was then asked by the admin of the group how I would feel if it was my child being placed in a defamatory light – this is insulting to me because I would actually find it incredibly helpful if someone took the time to do this for me- if my child was going down the wrong path and bringing harm to others, I would truly appreciate someone taking their time to inform me so that I could rectify my child’s behaviour and ensure a brighter future not just for my little one, but for everyone that they encounter in life.

Of course I understand that there are the right channels to follow and that the next course of action would more than likely be to place a complaint in with the Department of Education opposed to simply informing a mothers group that we have a potential threat to all children at school.

The Department Of Education however, just like the school, aren’t going to inform anyone of who they need to be careful around and who they should not turn their backs on – and that’s the important part!

Children have the right to know who they need to be wary of in order to keep themselves safe.

Perhaps if parents cared about the harmful impact their menaces have on society as much as they do the reputation of these little beasts, it would create a far more peaceful and safe environment to go to school in.

The problem isn’t that the victim spoke your child’s name – the problem is that your child finds it amusing to watch others being strangled by their own hands.

Your child’s criminal behaviour is what defamed them and absolutely nothing else!

YOU are CANCER

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‘But my Mummy’s got cancer and my Daddy left me’ – so I can do whatever I want right? Hurt whomever I please – because I’ve got a reasonable excuse which allows me to get away with practically anything…

This is precisely the mindset of children today. Where once upon a time the kids of divorced parents would simply pull their heads in and get on with life – suddenly we’re expected to give unreasonable leeway to children facing the same adversity as all young people have faced for DECADES before them.

If you’re the type of delinquent creature to:

  • approach a peer on the first day back at school, only to tell them to “fuck off”
  • lock a peer outside of a classroom during class and then stand against the door with your low life accomplices so that the teacher can’t hear the child knocking on the other side of the door

Then you are nothing more than a cancer to society.

In the same way the cancer is cheating your mother out of her life – stealing her joy, robbing her of any quality of life – you are cheating your fellow peers out of their lives and out of their educations – you are stealing their futures – and yet you don’t have to be cancer. It’s your choice to be the way you are.

Everybody dies, nobody gets out of life alive, however, whilst waiting until the end, nobody has the right to be sucking the life out of anybody else for any reason – regardless of whether you feel sad about something devastating in your life! It doesn’t mean that you then get to be a cancerous monstrosity that poisons another persons existence here on earth.

You’re trying to take people’s futures away in exactly the same manner as cancer is threatening your mother. 

Obviously, anyone with a terminal illness has the sympathy of those that encounter them which also extends to the people closest to them – sympathy however should not be mistaken for stupidity. It does not give you an automatic hall pass to bring harm to others.

I will never feel so sorry for you that I will simply tolerate the evil things that you do to anyone else – because everyone’s lives matter just as much as your own, just as much as the people that you love, the people that you’re worried about dying and the people that have left you longing for their love.

The sadness and trauma in your life does not exclude you from – at the very least – having to be a decent human being. I’m not suggesting that you’ve got to put any kind of effort into your life or that you have to make something of yourself – that you have to be educated or aspire to be anything special – basic human decency however is a must!

By locking someone out of the classroom and standing up against the door so that the teacher can’t hear the person on the other side of the door knocking in an attempt to get back in – you aren’t only stealing their education from them – surprisingly, you are unwittingly teaching them how valuable their time is, how important their education is and how they must fight every step of the way to gain as much precious knowledge as they can because knowledge is power – and you, just like cancer, are trying to steal power from others.

Leaving them locked outside that classroom only made their passion, their desire for learning even greater. As with anything in life – when you try to stop a person from achieving their goals, from being the best version of themselves that they can be, you somewhat have the opposite effect on them by igniting a fire in them that they themselves didn’t know that they had – and they will fight for what is rightfully theirs, no matter what challenges they are forced to face because their determination is pure of heart.

As human beings we all must come to terms with the fact that we are dying. With every breath that we take we are only getting closer to the end of our lives. As parents, it is an integral part of the role that we have taken on, that we guide our children towards goodness if nothing else, towards kindness above cowardice and on a personal note I can say wholeheartedly that if I were to want anything from my children during my end days, it would be the peace that comes from knowing that they would continue to be decent, successful and honourable human beings.

Allow your parents the opportunity to die in peace knowing that you will honour yourselves, respect yourselves as well as those around you.

Nobody likes cancer – and nobody on earth likes cancerous people like you – destructive, uncontrollable, evil creatures. But it’s never too late to turn your EXCUSES into REASONS for doing the right thing.

They Aren’t Bullying You Just Because They’re ‘Jealous’!

~ Rochelle ~ Leave a comment

No matter the age of the child, the question that pops up from them regardless of if they’re in primary or secondary school is WHY they are being targeted by bullies – it’s something most of us would wonder ourselves.

Largely the excuse made for these poor examples of human beings is that they’re ‘jealous’ of the person that they are relentlessly harassing.

I have a different theory though – and it goes far deeper than simply “jealousy”.

What if these menaces to society, either single-handedly or with a small group of their like-minded lowlife associates, get together and harass others so that they don’t start fights within their own friendship group?

What if they are bullying our children not just because our children are too respectful to fight back, but also because they have a deep desire to inflict pain on anyone who they see as an ‘easy target’ who they know won’t try to intimidate them back in any way?

These evil creatures aren’t merely jealous of children who they see as more successful, happier or more visually appealing than what they perceive themselves to be- I mean I’m sure it starts there, especially when they make nasty remarks about how ugly they feel their victim is- and even more so when they interrupt a class to look directly at our child, call them a dog and order them to stop smiling… there must be something visually that they despise about their victim – the fact that their victims are usually the children who are oozing with pure joy does not help. 

They loathe our children’s happiness. They can’t stand the love that fills our children’s hearts and so they endeavour to try and put our children’s spark out or at the very least dim their light – if they can’t achieve their greatest desire of extinguishing our children completely.

This goes far beyond any kind of jealousy they may feel over materialistic things – after all from my firsthand experience with the cursed children that are harassing my daughter – they appear to have it all – and they boast about stealing it too.

In fact, if you walk into the 7-Eleven at Seven Hills, you will find their mugshots on the stores watchlist wall – these creatures have no shame in any sense of the word and this does not deter them in any way.

Whilst on the topic of stealing, they have even done so from my daughter – which honestly comes as no surprise because that’s the type of maniacal creatures they are.

This is the type of useless beings these menaces are, they are without even the smallest amount of morals or values – and where does the lack of basic core values come from if not the parents themselves?

How can anyone continue to use the excuse of jealousy for these pathetic individuals when the reality is they are far more savage than we give them credit for.

The true explanation as to why your child is being bullied, harassed and hurt by evil individuals is because those pathetic excuses for children are filled with hate. They don’t have anything else to their lives. Hate is their only drive. Not just jealousy. And if they’re not intimidating someone who has higher standards than themselves, who would not engage in violence with them, then they would turn on one of their own – and because their own are equally as vindictive as they are, they run the risk of getting themselves hurt.

That is what is actually going on here!

Hateful parents without willingness to give their child the love, guidance and support that their vicious offspring so desperately need, curse the entire world with their spawn- who are so filled with hate themselves that they are driven to destroy the most beautiful elements of life that mankind has ever seen.

These abominations hate to see anyone succeed or be happy or smile but that’s not the only thing driving them to drag our children down. They will do this just to prevent themselves from being targeted by their equals- the pathetic excuses of children who are just as vindictive as what they are.

They aren’t just bullying you because they’re jealous of you – they’re bullying you because they’re too COWARDLY to do anything else, to put the work in and actually make anything of themselves and they are far too scared to leave themselves open to being targeted by the demoniac associates they consider to be their friends.

The old saying “idle hands are the devil‘s workshop” could not be more true when considering these types of useless creatures.